Dating Life & Hookup Stories

Seeing blokes from the financial district and asset management group try to find an escort without backpages. Not quite sure they were the three of the hitting up the same girl when they said they’d split 2Gs.

Apparently this one guy did call up a Russian escort. Had to get her in through the service lift because the main one was closed coming up to the club. That girl definitely indulged in the free Hennessey XO he was pouring out from the bar.
 
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this post actually happened on twitter


Can you imagine that......Whack! Ouch.

It's like the myth or semi-myth of ladies who like threesomes with their best friend and you. Whilst it does happen, generally it's not because they really dig getting it on with you and another female, but because of pressure from boyfriend. And it won't last. A mate of mine got involved with the kinky crowd and he definitely was doing threesomes with lots of coke and his lady chums. Now he complains all his ex-coke lady friends completely blank him now they're all married and babied up. His other complaint is his menopausal wife doesn't want sex with him. Well, at least for the past six months.
 
"The woman told the court that Nikdima insisted on paying for coffee and she thought it was sweet.

'It felt nice to be around someone who wants to be a gentleman. That doesn't happen much these days,' she said."

All it takes is a coffee these days?
 
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Maybe I need to try that.
 
The article I read that linked to this said on average the allowance is $2975 CAD. That's not actually too bad.

How many shags per month do you get for that? Do they have to pretend to like or respect you?
 
How many shags per month do you get for that? Do they have to pretend to like or respect you?

It sounds like escorts are for you mate. You're guaranteed. This is like going to a random massage parlour and hoping for full service every time.
 
"Blayne: I remember thinking Kiera was super confident and a real go-getter. I saw how comfortable she was in her own skin, and I liked that. She was career oriented, and I could see she was passionate about what she did. And, obviously, I also found her very beautiful. She seemed like someone I wanted to get to know. My entire family met her at the same time as I did, and we all really liked her. The way she bossed my family around was attractive to me."

He needs affirmation from his family. He wants a girl to order him around. He (probably) needs the girl to fend off his (overbearing) family.

 
My vicarious contribution: A work friend who was with me in LA last week shared his dating app hook-up results for the week while we waited for our plane home:

He went on one actual date that didn’t result in more than a tame smooch. I saw a pic of the girl and would not say she is attractive but definitely in his league. She described herself as “ethically non monogamous” and “partnered”

Nineteen year old very hot college girl chatted with him about her love of older men with kids and rough sex. I’m skeptical, but it looks like she was legit (even if the pics weren’t) - but with no intention of really meeting him or going beyond sexting. I told him he was probably sexting with an obese gay 35yo man.

Hotwife and husband planned date that schedules never allowed for. Saw a couple of lingerie pics and she is definitely attractive. Sounds like the dude wanted to watch or join-in, though work colleague was at pains to say he is not bi.

My favorite that spurred the whole conversation: thirty something Asian woman comes in hot and heavy within a few texts and then offering to set up a date showing him a beach at sunset and ‘see where things lead’. It was sounding like a catfish scam or something but a couple things stood out to me: she said she was a 33yo Chinese national on a student visa who worked for the government back home. She lived in DC before moving to LA, though spent 18 months during the pandemic back in China. At the same time as our conference, there was also a drone and aerospace engineering conference in the same center. Dude chickened out of meeting her, thinking it was some kinda scam, but maybe she was a hot spy?
 
Not exactly known for their beauties.
He was cagey about showing me anything from the app, but I did get a glimpse of one pic of her. Not really my type, but not unattractive and well out of his league.

I’m very glad my single years predated apps, but I’m fascinated by all the scams and creative hustles on these things. The Chinese bad spy chick had me baffled, but maybe there is more that he isn’t telling me.
 
He was cagey about showing me anything from the app, but I did get a glimpse of one pic of her. Not really my type, but not unattractive and well out of his league.

I’m very glad my single years predated apps, but I’m fascinated by all the scams and creative hustles on these things. The Chinese bad spy chick had me baffled, but maybe there is more that he isn’t telling me.
It’s a scam
 
It’s a scam
Definitely, but what sort is the question. If he agreed to meet her, would he find a dude with a pistol demanding wallet and watch? Would she tell him she needs to ‘borrow’ some money before going back to his room? The spy angle is interesting, but she’d be a pretty bad professional spy - I still wonder if maybe some govt employees are encouraged to act as amateur spies when opportunity arises.
 
I’m still entertained with the vicarious fun of my friend’s dating stories. Since breaking with her partner, she has immersed herself into the world of Ethical Non Monogamy: hooking up with singles, couples and other combinations she meets on a ‘lifestyle’ dating app.

What strikes me as interesting is that:

1. In the old days it was the confident and bold extrovert who could approach a stranger and ask her out who got the date. Now it is the articulate writer who is good at texting and then sexting who gets the first date.

2. A lot of people use old profile pictures. It’s common to meet someone for a date only to find they aged ten years, lost hair and put on weight. Maybe there is a market for authenticating digital photos as recent?
 
I’m still entertained with the vicarious fun of my friend’s dating stories. Since breaking with her partner, she has immersed herself into the world of Ethical Non Monogamy: hooking up with singles, couples and other combinations she meets on a ‘lifestyle’ dating app.

What strikes me as interesting is that:

1. In the old days it was the confident and bold extrovert who could approach a stranger and ask her out who got the date. Now it is the articulate writer who is good at texting and then sexting who gets the first date.

2. A lot of people use old profile pictures. It’s common to meet someone for a date only to find they aged ten years, lost hair and put on weight. Maybe there is a market for authenticating digital photos as recent?
Which app is she on?
 
I’m still entertained with the vicarious fun of my friend’s dating stories. Since breaking with her partner, she has immersed herself into the world of Ethical Non Monogamy: hooking up with singles, couples and other combinations she meets on a ‘lifestyle’ dating app.

What strikes me as interesting is that:

1. In the old days it was the confident and bold extrovert who could approach a stranger and ask her out who got the date. Now it is the articulate writer who is good at texting and then sexting who gets the first date.

2. A lot of people use old profile pictures. It’s common to meet someone for a date only to find they aged ten years, lost hair and put on weight. Maybe there is a market for authenticating digital photos as recent?
Friend, huh?
 

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