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Depends on how big or small you are and the width of your lapels. Tie and lapels should be close in width. Not exactly the same is fine. quarter inch +/-
3 inches is on the slim side for regular folks unless you are an Ivy acolyte where you might select a 2 7/8 (check out Ask Andy and some of the specific widths quoted) or a 3, "although Drakes is flogging 7cm ties which tie makers will cheat up and call a 3" inch tie. 3.25" (8cm) is skinny for some but Brooks Brothers classic lapels match this. 3.5" - 3.75" is iGent comfort zone. 9 to 9.5 cm.
Great post by Thruth .
I'm 6", wear a 44" jacket and prefer reasonably wide lapels. I also prefer a tie that's 3.5 - 3.75" in width as otherwise I find they just look too narrow in comparison to my lapels and my general width.
There certainly are bespoke tie makers - some dodgy, some not.
For good off-the-rack ties that are decently wide, try E. Marinella or E.G. Capelli. Capelli has an online store and as well as off-the-rack, I think he will also customise ties on request:
https://www.patriziocappelli.it/
I don't know whether they still do, but Brooks Brothers used to make good ties that were a decent width, all made in their factory in New York. You can often pick them up on eBay cheaply.
Vanda do both off-the-rack ties and made-to-order ties - as they only make the tie when you order, you can request a specific length and width. Note that Vanda prefer a thin lining and no back "keeper" - some people like that, some don't. They do tie a fantastic knot.
http://vandafineclothing.com/
Sam Hober makes only made-to-order ties and has a good reputation.
https://www.samhober.com/ties/ties.htm